Wednesday, August 13, 2008
i can't understand why some people love to praise people who give insensitive remarks, in another term blunt. They kept calling them clever and confident.
There is this person i know. This person haapens to fall into the category of giving blunt remarks. This person loves to point my faults out , give blunt remarks about me(my habits, etc...), she doesn't care about how the other party feels, she just want to get everything she can't stand seeing off her chest. She used to say that i am very difficult to teach whenever my mum ask me to ask to her to check my maths wkbk when i was in pri 4 . This remark hurts me, even though some of you think it not a big deal, but you know i really hate to hear it. I heard when i was in school at that time, from those students with better grades and even the teacher who taught me at that time.
ok.....enough about this fellow.......
Whenever i ask these people to speak politely in future if they have any remarks to tell me, they would give me such an answer:" That is the truth what!!", "I don't want to be a hypocrite!" and " You must learn to get used to such people". I find the person who give the first answer to be very irresponsible, the person has hurt the other party feeling and still have the cheek to say that is the truth. And for the second answer, even though i ask them to speak politely not to speak bluntly in future, doesn't mean that they must be a hypocrite. And the last one, same as the first, irresponsible too.
In my opinion, i feel that these people needs to learn to be tactful, coz i dun think such people are smart like what others say. Coz these people never thought on how to phrase the remarks they want the other party to know in a better and more pleasant manner. But however, i tink they are rather confident.
ice-ice
2:26 AM
Saturday, August 9, 2008
felt rather emo. probably could be those past incident that came back to mine mind.
ice-ice
8:31 PM